Prosedur tips menelepon pacar | 15 Langkah Ngobrol Berdialog di telepon ketika menelepon Pacar Girl friend / Boy friend

We've all been faced with a seemingly-impossible task: keep a conversation with a girlfriend going when it seems there is nothing of worth to discuss. However, don't fret: it's simple, don't worry--and with some time and a cautious mouth, you will be able to converse easily and smoothly with your girlfriend.


Talk about something you're both interested in. If you're having problems finding a topic, try an interest of hers. Don't focus on yourself.

Listen to everything she says. Comment; ask questions. Don't try to be too cool; she likes someone who sincerely cares, and you should if she's your girlfriend.

Add to her ideas, but still express your own opinion.

Ask questions if things are going slow. Anything will do: what kind of music she likes, how's school or work, things like that.

Share an interesting anecdote (story). But of course, don't over do it and hog all the speaking time. Listening always comes first.

Restate her views on matters being discussed, to prove that her point is being made, (and to show that you are listening.)

Tell her your views on things that are important to you and ask her to share hers as well.

Speak positive thoughts about the past, present, and future.

Don't sound all knowing and 'got it all fixed' kind of guy

If she has a busy schedule later, don't be angry and try excusing her. Just show interest in her having to rest in what she is about to be busy doing and then with a joke insist she has to find her way to work or something. Wish her best of luck.

Always remember to keep the conversations short and sweet. It's better to end it when things are going good than in an awkward silence.

If she doesn't know a topic think of one yourself...be creative and take the leadership in the relationship.

Always be prepared for those tough questions you know are eventually coming.

Don't be afraid to send her random messages that have compliments. When you do it will show her that you are thinking about her even when you're not on the phone and make her feel special.

Don't insist she must tell you what's wrong. Just make her know you are there when she wants to talk. ----/